How to Make Love to a Woman

The mysteries of a woman have long confounded men and no more so than in the bedroom.  What will work one night, may never work again.  Women are usually hard to understand.  God made them complicated for a reason.  We have to work at it to understand them better.  When we work at it we become closer to the person that they are.  The fun of being in love is trying to understand your mate better.  We need to find new and exciting ways to please them in bed.  The worse thing we can do as men is to feel like a failure, or to get angry and stop trying to please them.  That is a major turn off to a woman.  Women want a man who is confident, yet willing to ask for help under the sheets.  Find out what she wants, and do not make it all about you.  Learn to give without expectation of anything but your mates pleasure in return. This will bring you closer to your spouse.  On that note, tell her what you like.  She most likely will want to please you as much as you want to please her.  I am amazed how many different ways and things you can do to keep it hot in the bedroom.  Keep those home fires hot, so your mates sexual desires do not lead them to a warmer place.  The great thing about sex is that you are sharing the most intimate part of yourself with another human being. 

 Mating is soul connecting.  It must be treated with love and respect.  Cherish it just for the one you love.  Do not use it as a weapon against your mate but as an integral part of a loving relationship. 

This post was previously featured on the Loveawake blog